1.Do you think Mýa could have done more to stop Zee? Or, do you feel that Mýa’s potential sense of loyalty to Zee held her back in some way?
2. If you were in Michael’s shoes, would you have held Mýa responsible for what happened to his brother? Why or why not? Do you feel Michael should have forgiven Mýa?
3. Michael seems to believe in love at first sight. Do you? Why or why not?
4. Do you feel that Michael was supportive of Mýa, or too persistent in pushing her to sing? How so?
5. Mýa deals with self-esteem issues. Why do you think having a healthy self-esteem is vital? What can cause women to have low self-esteem and how can they rebuild it for themselves?
6. Seeking help from a professional counselor was suggested to both Mýa and Michael, yet both refused. Do you feel that talking to a professional counselor might have helped them or even saved their relationship? If so, how? What are some of the misconceptions people might have about getting help from a professional?
7. Keeping a journal was how Mary and Mýa shared their innermost thoughts and feelings. Do you feel that was fair to Jack or any of their other loved ones? Should they have shared their thoughts and feelings with anyone else, or were they entitled to their own private musings?
8. Mary and Jack often gave Mýa advice. Which piece of advice resonated with you, and why?
9. Do you keep a journal? If so, why? If not, is it something you might consider after reading this book?
10. Mýa fought throughout the book to forgive herself and find peace. Do you think she finally found both? How important is forgiveness versus peace of mind?
11. Which one did you feel was better for Mýa: Michael or Matt? Explain.
